But teens generally find it “uncool” to tag along with their parents and are easily bored if their active minds and bodies aren’t constantly engaged, or for some, overtaxed.

Here’s how you can keep them from behaving badly or turning into cranky menaces during the holiday: 

Choose a suitable holiday destination

If your teens are the “high-octane” or “computer crazy” sort, it’s wiser to rule out the “let’s chill out at a secluded beach resort” idea. Go to a more “happening place” like the Gold Coast or Cairns where there are plenty of adrenalin-pumping pursuits the whole family can enjoy. Let them choose at least one activity they want to do and have the whole family participate.

Those facing budget constraints can consider nearby destinations like Malaysia and Thailand, which have plenty of “city-country” facilities, from gigantic shopping malls to beautiful national parks, to keep everyone happy, as well as nurture in your children the spirit of adventure and an appreciation for nature.

Keep everyone happy

Staying in a centrally-located area may cost you more, but it’s well worth it if your accommodation has lots of attractions nearby, as it could save you considerable aggravation. You can cut down on the time spent travelling between places, and the facilities will keep the teens amused while giving you that much-needed break, away from them.

Remember to relax

Teens value their privacy and independence, so give them space and let them do their own thing whenever possible. Remember you’re on holiday, and it’s all right to loosen your grip over them. For instance, allow them to hang out in the game arcades while you visit the spa, let them sleep in while you do your 20 laps in the hotel pool, give them a holiday allowance and even let them keep any leftover money.

Keeping the peace will make your family holiday so much more enjoyable, and your teens will have happy memories to treasure all their lives.